lose vs get

today, i lost something, but at the same time, i get something that is more worth.

first of all, i would like to thanks to Miss Teoh, who came over my work place today and teach me some lessons.

1. Don't treat people too good
---> a story from a stupid girl who is so naive to believe that you treat a person very good, and the person will treat you good as well. However, the lesson teach us that we need to choose people to treat good.

2. There are always chances given, but sometimes, someone might not be appreciate it.
---> so, don't give too many chances to someone to hurt you! being hurt by a person for the first time is fine, second time is ok, third time is experience, and once you had been hurt by the same person for more than three times, it means that you are too stupid! Yes, i can't deny that i am so stupid.

3. Keep distance with the person who can simply hurt you.
---> the naive allice trust her friends, but someone can just simply hurt her for many times. To prevent from being hurt again, she is now learning to keep a distance with not only guy, but also girl!

4. Do not believe that a person can easily change her attitude to be good.
---> i thought she had change, i thought i treat her as my friend is right, i thought we are friends, i thought... yes, there is all 'i thought'. she is still the same girl that i know, or maybe worse.

5. Do not treat someone as a friend when she is not thinking that you are.
---> trust me! you will believe it if you treat someone nice but at last she still keeps hurting you.

6. 最毒婦人心
---> why suddenly i change to use chinese here? because this lesson is actually coming from chinese. i can believe that you know this phrase also if you watch hong kong drama. It means that the most harmful poison is the heart of ladies ( in cantonese : zoi tuk fu yan sam )

ok, talk back to the case just now. i lost a what-so-called friend (maybe she never think that i am); i lost my temper, and, i might lost my reputation in my company.

what i get?
1. the lessons that stated above.
2. an experience with a black dot that will always remind me about the case.
3. the trust & support of my managers.
4. the words that my manager told me in her office.
5. the support of my friend, yes, a real friend, emma.

thanks emma, after cried while talking with you, after talking to you, i feel better now.

as you said just now, this is not the first time 'she' act like this already, yea, i know, but last time i thought maybe that was our mistake/misunderstanding. now? no comment. after write all these out, feel much better. i'm trying to not to be sad of this, as you said just now, it's not worth. so, i will continue be HAPPY :D

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