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如果你在乎我,可不可以让我知道

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如果,你在乎我。
可不可以让我知道,不要总是让我找你,
那会让我感觉,你根本就不在意我。


如果你在乎我,就不要总是让我孤单一个人,我真的很讨厌
寂 寞。


如果,你在乎我。
记得多关心我关心我,我喜欢你问我今天做了什么,
而不是自己一个劲地告诉你,我今天怎么了。


如果,你在乎我。
在我情绪低落,心情郁闷的时候,要多讲话逗逗我,
不要一直的沉默,其实,只要你一句话,我就会很开心了。


如果,你在乎我。
在我生你气的时候,绝对不可以想着我在生气,就不理会我
这样,我会很伤心,也会更生气,其实,我只是想你哄哄我


如果,你在乎我。
不要总是回我 呵呵 哦 这类的话语,就算你不想说话,也要多打几个字,不要让我感觉你是在敷衍我。


如果,你在乎我。不要让我在需要你的时候,却找不到你,那样 的我很无助。


如果,你在乎我。要记住我们在一起发生的事情,要记住我的喜 好。


如果,你在乎我。
不管是好是坏的事情,我都想你可以告诉我,
让我分享你的快乐,分担你的忧愁。


如果,你在乎我。
你会想办法,让我每天都开开心心的吧?
如果我在乎你,我也可以做到。

23062010

as prediction, woke up with swollen eyes

on the way to work, onefm was playing a song sing by 梁文音, a song that meant a lot to me -- 哭过就好.
and on my facebook, i post ''i know. i cry. i understand. i let go.'' i know that it's not easy to let go, but i have no choice, i have to, because this is her decision. i have no right to be disappointed, as this is a result of my mistaken, a wrong decision i made, so i have to face it, eventhough the situation now is not as what i aspect. won't regret even the 'try' failed, at least i tried.

did not go post office because of some reasons.
the situation in meeting room at 11am is as how i predicted, it was very cold and my stomach was growling =.=

my hot date with ms. c thc was on! planned to dine at lorong seratus tahun, but then when j & c came to my house, the shop was almost close, hence, we dined at station one at sunway. then, g came after badminton, and then t came.
after quite some time, i did not go club, and today, they brought me there again, cocoa banana. haha.. i entered cocoa banana with my nerd look with spec! hahaha..
ermm.. why i club again? i did not forget the promise, but as how someone told me, i cannot hold my stupid principle because of that reason, i should not bear so much of things, should slowly put down some. and i am trying now.

i am always so lucky actually. i always have friends beside me when i have problems, when i am down, and sure when i am happy lah ^.^
really thanks 4 of them for the night they were with me!

C, J, G & T, thanks you guys so much!!



allice tan

prediction 23062010

now is 3.00am on 23 June 2010

the prediction started here..

early in the morning
8.00am
working hard on the result of crying last nite -- my swollen eyes (the eyes are red somemore!! how to cover? arghhhhh)


9.30am
office is loaded with aroma of nescafe

10.30am
time to exercise! walk walk walk! walk to post office and walk back..

11.10am
in a quiet meeting room, me & my manager are having meeting in a quiet + cold meeting room.. and.. there's a weird sound here.. someone's stomach is growling.. oppsss.. it's mine!! >.<

afternoon
1.40pm
take a fresh breath & have something to fed the poor little empty stomach..

3.00pm
aroma of nescafe, again, filled the office..

6.00pm
date ms.C THC

................


cant see the pic clear now.. brain said it dun wan 2 think anymore..
so that's all for prediction today..



allice tan

梁继璋送给儿子的备忘录

(注明:香港电台主持人梁继璋送给儿子的备忘录)

我儿:

写这备忘录给你,基于三个原则:
(一)人生福祸无常,谁也不知可以活多久,有些事情还是早一 点说好。
(二)我是你的父亲,我不跟你说,没有人会跟你说。
(三)这备忘录里记载的,都是我经过惨痛失败得回来的体验, 可以为你的成长省回不少冤枉路。

以下,便是你在人生中要好好记住的事:

(一)对你不好的人,你不要太介怀,在你一生中,没有人有义务要对你好,除了我和你妈妈。至于那些对你好的人,你除了要珍惜、感恩外,也请多防备一点,因为,每个人做每件事,总有一个原因,他对你好,未必真的是因为喜欢你,请你必须搞清楚,而不必太快将对方看作真朋友。

(二)没有人是不可代替,没有东西是必须拥有。看透了这一 点,将来你身边的人不再要你,或许失去了世间上最爱的一切 时,也应该明白,这并不是甚么大不了的事。

(三)生命是短暂的,今日你还在浪费着生命,明日会发觉生 命已远离你了。因此,愈早珍惜生命,你享受生命的日子也愈 多,与其盼望长寿,倒不如早点享受。

(四)世界上并没有最爱这回事,爱情只是一种霎时的感觉, 而这感觉绝对会随时日、心境而改变。如果你的所谓最爱离 开你,请耐心地等候一下,让时日慢慢冲洗,让心灵慢慢沉 淀,你的苦就会慢慢淡化。不要过分憧憬爱情的美,不要过分夸 大失恋的悲。

(五)虽然,很多有成就的人士都有受过很多教育,但并不等 如不用功读书,就一定可以成功。你学到的知识,就是你拥 有的武器。人,可以白手兴家,但不可以手无寸铁,紧记

(六)我不会要求你供养我下半辈子,同样地我也不会供养你 的下半辈子,当你长大到可以独立的时候,我的责任已经完 结。以后,你要坐巴士还是Benz,吃鱼翅还是粉丝,都要自己负责。

(七)你可以要求自己守信,但不能要求别人守信,你可以要求自己对人好,但不能期待人家对你好。你怎样对人,并不代表人家就会怎样对你,如果看不透这一点,你只会徒添不必要的烦恼。

(八)我买了十多二十年六合彩,还是一穷二白,连三奖也没 有中,这证明人要发达,还是要努力工作才可以,世界上并没有免费午餐。

(九)亲人只有一次的缘份,无论这辈子我和你会相处多久, 也请好好珍惜共聚的时光,下辈子,无论爱与不爱,都不会再见 。

溶化了

心,不懂怎么,怪怪地,
好像突然被挖空了似的…

一直说,简单就好……
简单,说当然简单啊!
可,我就是做不到嘛!

有人说,我不曾尝试,
不愿尝试,就说不能…
有谁懂,我一直在试,
努力逼自己做到这点,
但,我的尝试失败了…

从来都不抱任何希望,
因为我懂,那是奢望…

希望破灭也许会很伤,
当一个人连希望破灭的机会也没有的时候,
就像,就像… 像什么呢?我也形容不出…

唉,算了…
就让它这样怪下去吧,
反正久了就会习惯了…

也不懂自己在胡言乱语什么,
这几天,冰块溶化了…
失去了自己原本的形状…



allice tan

I am What I am!!

Above & Beyond pres. Oceanlab - I Am What I Am



I know you've read
So many books
You keep a breast of all the things you think you should
You've got your own home grown philosophy
And it works for you
But please don't try to make it work for me

You have nothing to prove
But you're trying much too hard
Stop trying to change me (Stop trying to change me…)
I am what I am (I am what I am…)
No I don't need you to save me (I don't need you to save me…)
I am what I am (I am what I am…)

I don't want you to show me (I don't need you to show me…)
Because I stand where I stand (I stand where I stand…)
I just need you to know me (just need you to know me)
Just know who I am (Just know who I am…)

Just know who I am...
Just know who I am...

I know you feel
You need to prove
That you are good at something
Everything you try to do
And people have on your every word
That you deliver
With conviction
Though they may just be absurd

Leave your armor behind
Free your vulnerable mind

Stop trying to change me (Stop trying to change me…)
I am what I am (I am what I am…)
No I don't need you to save me (I don't need you to save me…)
I am what I am (I am what I am…)
I don't want you to show me (I don't need you to show me…)
Because I stand where I stand (I stand where I stand…)
I just need you to know me (just need you to know me)
Just know who I am (Just know who I am…)

Just know who I am...
Just know who I am...